7 Major Mistakes Women Make That Push Men Away
My sisters, today I give you 7 reasons that can push a man to leave you, even if he loves you with all his heart. These are things you find simple, but these things are important to men. Read well and take note to keep your current or future sweetheart.
7 Biggest Reasons Men Leave Women They Love
1. Disrespect: A man will abandon a woman who disrespects him. It's no longer a secret to anyone. Everyone knows that respect is what men need most in a romantic relationship. What men hate most is disrespect in public especially in front of their relatives, friends, etc.
The man also hates disobedient women, those who do what they want. Men hate women who don't listen to them.
2. Infidelity: Men hate unfaithful women, it's very rare to see a man forgive his girlfriend's unfaithfulness. My sisters are faithful to your man.
3. Sex: Women are able to go years without relationships, but men are unable to hold on for a long time. My sisters, I have always asked you to abstain before dowry or marriage, because abstinence will keep bad men away from you. But don't refuse a man who gifted you, a man who married you. Don't reject a man you've already had children with, a man you're living in the same house with. Apart from the ones I just mentioned, you can experience abstinence.
4. The material: My sisters, men don't like women who ask for money, they don't love women who spend their time talking about money. If a man is working and he really loves you, he will give you money without you asking. But you have to work to avoid always talking to your man about money.
5. Pressure: Men mostly don't like being pressured. A man can easily abandon a woman he loves because she put enough pressure on him. He's under so much pressure he's giving up. My sisters, don't be too demanding, it's by force to want much that we lose the little we have, so accept what your man gives you, don't ask too much. You have to accept the little your man gives you, happiness is to accept and enjoy the little you have. Don't force your man to pay you expensive things, don't put pressure on him, especially if he has a job that's already stressing him out. A man needs freedom, give freedom to your loved ones.
6. Ultimatums: Men don't like being thrown at ultimatums. Ultimatum is when you ask your man to obey certain conditions, otherwise, you will react. Let me give you an example: When you tell your man to change his behavior, otherwise you'll see elsewhere, it's an ultimatum. This is an example I set. So, even if your man behaves badly, don't throw an ultimatum at him. I say it because men are authoritarian in nature and woman is submissive in nature. So when a woman puts an ultimatum on her man, it's like she's trying to dominate him, he'll feel weak. While men don't like women who dominate them. So you need to know how to talk calmly to a man without throwing an ultimatum.
7. Discussing his orders or thoughts: Men don't like women who refuse to do what they ask them to do. A woman must respect her man. So she gotta do what her man asks her But when she's arguing with him he'll find her disrespectful. Even if your man is wrong, you must find the right way to talk to him: Always speak calmly and gently so that he can understand. But never argue with him.